Last week i had dinner with joe and sze chun respectively. Actually i didnt met them for long, esp joe, i think at least 2 years la.And i was quite worry before i met joe, in case we dont have much too talk. But once we met, out of my expectation, we kept on talking and talking, non-stopped!!
I was quite happy and relieved after having dinner with these two guys.Although i dun see them so often, not even a phone call, i can share nearly all my thoughts and worries!! and they 'seem' understanding!! i'm so happy that i have such old friends!!
This inspires me much, esp when i'm in a 'down' period recently, in aspect of my work and interpersonal relationship.
what is the meaning of friends? i'm not good at definition. But i know at least a friend should care about you and can share your happiness and worries.
Sometimes, it's quite hard to pick up the obligation to keep in contact with a so called 'friend' who cannot share with you.
Sometimes it's also quite hard to pick up the obligation to share the happiness and worries of a friend, but, who cannot share yours.
Sometimes it's quite disappointing that a friend just remember the only one mistake youve made , regardless of what uve tried to do for the friend.
Sometimes it's quite sad that you are always the only one have no excuse and to be blamed, while others always had their reasons which is accepted and forgiven, even doing the same 'mistake'.
Sometimes the feeling of loneliness is quite ......er...lonely
i hope it's me thinking too much.....
i know.. i'm too self-centered....
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I think I'm a strange guy for many people. I feel emptiness in the conversation among a lot of people, "so-call friends" as you said, but you're one of the exception, though we don't contact often. I don't know why. Maybe this is the mystery of friendship. At least we can share and feel comfortable, righy? Let's keep it. I found it's gettin harder to make it when you grow up.
I enjoy the meal very much. I really mean it.
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